My view about Memories

Memories....

What is memory?

It has got many age-old definitions and people also tend to give it new definition according to the feelings through which they feel connected to a particular memory. But according to me memories are not only of happy or bitter feelings. Memories are such which helps a person to grow strong even if the person who used to motivate him/her is not with them. It happens so because the word which used to motivate and used to help them in their life gets instilled in them. Memories can be of anyone like- Friends, Family, Lover, Teacher and many such motivators. A new day from the very dawn till dusk comes with new memories with it, its upto us that what type of memories we tend to create for a particular day. Few people imprint their memories in diary so that they don’t feel a particular memory has got omitted from their life’s chapter.

Memories given by family are like full of mixed feelings. Sometimes when parents nag on you then your siblings comes to pull you out of fire. And then they start to nag which becomes a lifetime memory because before committing the same false step it comes to our mind in the form of memory. It is that when siblings commits false step together it becomes a lifetime entertainment memory. When the elders give us life lessons it becomes memory which we can’t forget up till death.

Memories given by friends are like they will laugh at you when you fall but they will also at the same time will feel pity and sorrow but sometimes tend to show that they are not at all effected with your fall. In life everyone has one such friend who always keeps you motivated and stands by you even in your odds. 

Memories of teachers are like when a child grows-up tend to visualize a teacher as his role model and wants to become like him. It happens because the teacher's impressions gets imprinted in the memory of that child. Than the teachings of teachers in academics as well as in real life becomes memory of the children and they tend to remember it. When an athlete stands on the competition ground he remembers the teachings of his coach and in difficult situations also sometimes remembers his face. This is also memory of teachers.

Memories are fragile and it’s we who give it different shapes and forms. It’s such which animals also have and they also don’t forget it. For which we say dogs are more loyal than anyone. Memories are such which can’t be erased as a whole. It helps a person to survive. It also can be said as spontaneous overflow of powerful feelings.

A quote by Joseph B. Wirthlin is quoted below-

“Some memories are unforgettable, remaining ever vivid and heart-warming!”